We all come to a certain point in a relationship where things are so messed up that a bowl of noodles may seem less tangled. To be with someone or not being with someone is something clear. However, the most frustrating phase is the blurry one between being in a relationship and not being in a relationship.
Relationships not always end because of mutual understanding; it can be because of one person who loses interest as time passes. There are very few people who talk things out with their partner when they have doubts about the relationship, or have lost interest in it and want a break up. Even though he or she may not love the person anymore, they will try not to say things right on to the face fearing it might hurt the person.
Some people just let things hang for the other person by giving those signs and hoping that they will understand. Such peoplemight not even care about the confusion and tension their partner goes through because things are just cut abrupt and are left hanging. This article is for you to know that your partner is giving you the signs knowingly or unknowingly which points to the fact that he or she is done with you and you have to move on.
Remember those early days of your relationship? How he would squeeze out through his tight schedule and make time for you? Well, if he doesn’t do that anymore and at all, even if you’re upset and you really need him to be with you, then you should sense the red signal.
He or she gets annoyed for every little thing you say or do and takes that as a reason for staying away from you and not talking to you for a long time. Apologizing will be something they would have forgotten long ago and every time you need to beg him and apologize to him for his faults or for a silly fight that you both were responsible for and take all the blame on you.
Physical and verbal abuse
Physical and verbal abuse is something that will assure you that it’s high time that you break up with this person. Even in anger, nobody has the right to hit you or abuse you that bad. This clearly points out the fact that he or she has lost respect for you and treats you as an object they possess.
Spends more time with friends
If they say that they are always busy at work but somehow you get to know that they are spending more time with their friends or maybe a new girl or guy, then it’s pretty sure that they don’t enjoy your company anymore.
Stops having loving conversations
When a person loses interest in you, he or she will simply stop saying they love you and talk to you in a romantic way and stops giving you sweet little surprises they used to give you in the past. You will feel that you’re single even if your partner is around.